Female players online dating
“It’ll make you stop being such a judgmental bitch,” was how she put it.
“You’ll have to be nice to people.” Online dating was, in my bitchy and judgmental estimation, for women who wanted to get married, stat, and were willing to settle for whatever turned up a few clicks away.
Yes, we’re all steeped in White Dude Culture, but date-worthy men and women should at least make an effort to escape a little bit. Double negative points if the favorites include Bret Easton Ellis or Norman Mailer. Comments about a woman being young, tiny, or child-like.
You’re entitled to select a date you are interested in and attracted to, which means you don’t have to respond to a guy’s advances just because he’s taken the time to advance upon you.
And the process of ferreting out the weirdos was oddly cathartic.